My wife cheated on me 10 years ago with her coworker, Mr M, from Nepal. I found out from their phone messages and I confronted her regarding this matter. I told her to send her coworker back to Nepal for good but she told me that she would resent me for the rest of her life.
I have three children, so in order to keep our family together I decided to accept my wife's demands and make peace with everyone including Mr M. He still comes around to the house sometimes, although I hate it, I don’t show my anger as my kids are around and they shouldn’t know about this matter.